After becoming a MOM, I realized that to the world, we’re NOT allowed to:
- Complain – “You chose to have kids.”
- Cry – “Why are you upset? Did you think it would be easy?”
- Feel tired – “Tired from what? You’re home all day!”
- Sleep in – “You’re just being lazy!”
- Take a break – “You’ll get rest once they’re grown.”
- Get pregnant again – “Are you serious? Isn’t that enough?”
- Leave your job – “How are you going to provide for your child?”
- Work – “Who’s going to watch the baby?”
- Use daycare – “Don’t let strangers raise your kid!”
- Be a stay at home mom – “Your husband does everything while you do nothing!”
- Be single – “Nobody wants a mom with baggage.”
- Go out – “Why are you going out and leaving your child?”
And the truth is…
No matter what we do, someone ALWAYS has something to say.
Let’s normalize giving moms grace. I’m a mom. I LOVE my kids. But I’ve felt EVERY one of these things at some point.

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